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It’s true; having a really nice house can make it easier to get laid.

First of all, girls in general, and some guys, care about the way things around them look. If you can create a space that impresses them on an artistic level, then that is just one more way to show off.

Humans in general are also creatures of our environment. We look at the world around us, and react based on what we see. Set up the right environment to get someone to behave the way that you want.

The first and most important home decorating tip is ridiculously simple; clean the place up. A mess is not attractive, and a smell is not sexy.

You should also be sure to get rid of all of the clutter. You want a clean, simple environment, not something over stimulating which will keep them looking at your chotchkies and not you.

On the other hand, you don’t want a space that is boring. It is important to be memorable. You are going to have to add some interesting features to keep the opposite sex stimulated when they enter your abode.

Color is a safe way to add decorative interest to a space. In general you aren’t going to offend anyone with a particular shade of blue. However you do have to be careful to avoid the few colors that will evoke the wrong image. In general, avoid anything that is the color of a bodily fluid.

You also have to make sure that your colors match. Clashing tones can be quite irritating. If you don’t have an eye for color you can try and use a color wheel.

Another trick is to pick a pattern you like, and then use the colors in that pattern, in the amounts used in the pattern. In this way the pattern becomes your color cheat sheet.

Paint is an inexpensive option for adding color. You can do your walls, or just contrast the walls with interesting molding colors.

There are also a variety of fabric paints, which can spruce up old couches and other upholstered items. However you have to be careful to follow the instructions when undertaking such a complex task.

Red and black are arguably the two sexiest colors. Black is severe, and red is passionate. Other tones such as greens, or oranges, used in the right way can also be exciting.

Contrasting tones sharply, rather than gently is a way to make the space seem more exciting and vigorous.

Lighting is another vital factor in setting the right tone in your home. While you want to have nice bright lights to see by during the day, you should also be able to dim or turn this off, and replace it with lighter ambient fixtures.

A mood light is a decorative piece that casts a very particular glow over a space. This illumination is often tinted to a specific color, such as crimson, or amber, to fill the room with erotic overtones. Illuminated onyx lamps produce an especially soft amber glow

You should also consider texture when decorating the space. Texture adds a whole new dimension to an atmosphere, and is by far one of the sexiest elements of a decorative scheme. Make sure to have textures throughout that will titillate their senses and set their nerve endings to tingling.

Once you are past the basic decorative choices, you can start to get more bold and daring, with accent pieces. These can include art, novelty accessories, or decorative lighting.

Here you get to show a little bit of your personality. An accent piece is designed to make a connection. It has to be interesting, and intriguing, both to you, and to those who enter the space. This is a great crutch for when conversation goes quiet.

While the accent piece is a child of your personality, it can’t be completely self indulgent. Be certain to choose something that has broad appeal to the opposite sex as well. In that way you won’t just have something that you want to discuss, but will actually be able to connect over this item.

Your environment is important when developing a relationship. It says a lot about who you are as a person, and it also affects the way others will react in your home. By controlling the world around you, you will have greater control over the situations that happen within it.

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